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Straight Up Givin’ a Crap

I’m a passionate person. When I believe in something, I believe in it with everything I have. I throw myself into it until it consumes me and becomes contagious to those around me. And you know what? I get a lot of crap for that.

I’m young. I’m only 24. (Shocking, I know.) I’ve done a whole lot more in my measly 24 years than some people do in their entire lives. Why? Because I don’t stop when people tell me no, it can’t be done, you’re too young to know what you’re talking about, you’ll regret this, you’re crazy, what you’re doing doesn’t matter. I do it anyways. And because of that, I’m a world changer.

I recently took one of the interns I work with to lunch. She and I haven’t really worked together until lately and I realized that even though we were Facebook friends, I really knew nothing about her. She’s amazing. She told me that what she’s really passionate about is animals. You know that show, Whale Wars? She wants to do something like that to help as many animals as she can. And do you know what she’s been told? That she’s crazy. That her boyfriend would dump her for doing something so extreme. You know what I told her? Do it. You’ll never regret standing up for something that matters to you.

My passion is ending the sex trade. While I want it to disappear altogether, I especially want to end the trafficking and exploitation of children. I’m not just going to talk about it, I’m going to do whatever I can to do it.

I learned about human trafficking when I was 18 years old. At the time, my youngest sister was 10. We come from a loving and supportive family who would do anything in their power to protect us. Knowing that I would do whatever I could to ensure her safety while girls were sold and traded by their loved ones, the ones who were supposed to protect them, enraged me. My sisters and I have a voice. My family has a voice. You have a voice. But the victims of the sex trade don’t. And that’s when I decided to give a crap.

When I told people I was going to Cambodia the first time at 19 years old, I got quite the variety of responses. Cambodia is a third world country. The United Nations ranks it 3rd most landmined country in the world. They have a corrupt legal system, which would basically leave me stuck in the country if anything went awry. And did I mention that I’m American? I’m pretty sure that never helps anyone abroad. But I went and fell in love with the Khmer people. I still keep in touch with people I worked with at the orphanage I stayed at. I went back again at 21 and worked more directly with children rescued from human trafficking. It’s really intense. And it never leaves you.

While I by no means think my work is done in Cambodia, I can’t turn my back on my country. The sex trade is growing problem in America. I was thrilled to learn that Rethreaded, an organization focused on breaking the cycle of the sex trade, was starting in my hometown of Jacksonville. I knew this wasn’t an accident. As soon as I learned about the organization, I reached out and started getting involved. Jacksonville has embraced this organization and it is growing beautifully.

I was recently told by someone that I’d give up on changing the world when I got older. The thing is, it won’t matter how old I am – there will always be people in need. And as long as there are people in need, I hope I’ll never be unwilling to make a difference.

Five on Friday: 5 Things I Learned From My Grandmother

Yesterday would’ve been my grandmother’s 71st birthday. She was an amazing woman. In January of 2010, my grandmother was diagnosed with cancer. Three weeks after she was diagnosed, my grandmother passed away. Not a single day goes by that I don’t miss her. I’m so thankful for the time I was able to spend with her. She was one of my closest friends and taught me so much in life. It only seems fitting to dedicate this week’s Five on Friday post to some of the things I learned from her.

1. When you’re putting leftovers in containers, use a container that’s one size smaller than you think you’ll need. I know this sounds crazy, but it has worked for me all but one time!

2. People matter. My grandmother would drop everything she was doing to be hospitable and make people feel welcome.

3. Learn how to cook for a crowd. My grandmother’s house was everyone’s house, and by “everyone” I don’t just mean our family. I don’t think I ever sat down for a meal at her house with less than 6 people at the table. She was always more than happy to cook for whoever wanted to eat.

4. Find something you love and never stop doing it. For my grandmother, this was twofold: she loved genealogy and she loved Bible study. She spent so much time on both and left a ton of notebooks chronicling the knowledge she gained. They made her happy, and that was a beautiful thing.

5. Forgive. In the last conversation I had with my grandmother, she imparted all of the wisdom she could muster the strength to convey to me. The very last thing she said was, “Forgive people, because in the end it really just doesn’t matter.”

And here’s a bonus for those of you reading: Friends come and go, but family is forever. I was 16 when my grandmother told me this. I was ditching a family gathering and she told me I’d understand that someday. She was right.

My Grandma would be happy to know her knowledge is being shared. I’m curious – what are some things you’ve learned from your grandparents?

Blueberry Picking in Waycross, GA

One of the bazillion summer traditions my family has is going to our friends’ house in Waycross to pick blueberries. These are the most delicious blueberries I’ve ever eaten. We end up eating about half as many as we pick while we’re out there.

This was Pablo’s first time to join us. He caught on quickly! Since Pablo knows how much of a wuss I am about bugs, he would throw blueberries at me to make me think they were bees. Even though my dad also does this every year, I still squirmed every time they hit me. (Who doesn’t hate bees, people!?!)

If you’ve never picked blueberries before, here are a few tips:

  • It’s hot. Wear some sunscreen and a big hat to keep yourself from getting sunburned. Keep some water on hand, too, to prevent dehydration.
  • Bring little baskets and big baskets. Pick blueberries in the little baskets and dump them in the big baskets. Leave the big baskets in your car – they’ll get heavy!
  • Drink water. Often. Did I mention that it’s hot? Blueberry season is in the heat of the summer. Make sure you give yourself frequent opportunities to rehydrate.
  • Wear bug spray. There are lots of mosquitoes and bees around blueberry bushes! (Can you blame them?)
  • Pick early. The earlier you pick, the cooler the weather will be.
  • Freeze some of your pickings. My mom lays blueberries out in a single layer on cookie sheets, then transfers the frozen berries to baggies.

The folks whose property we picked the blueberries on told us their grapes would be in season in a few weeks. We might be heading back up to Waycross for some more fresh fruit!

Five on Friday: 5 Things to Do on a Saturday in Jacksonville

It’s the weekend – time for some fun! If you’re plumb out of ideas, here are some things to do in Jacksonville, FL.

  1. Go to the zoo. Seriously, have you been to the zoo lately? It’s awesome! You can spend the whole day there. And here’s a tip – pack a picnic lunch to make the day more affordable.
  2. Riverside Arts Market. This is seasonal, but it’s SO much fun! Grab some lunch, watch the performers, peruse the wares and then take a walk along the river.
  3. Hike at Ft. Caroline. There are a lot of different trails over there. Take a peek at the Ribault Monument while you’re there – it’s the highest point in Jacksonville.
  4. Mosey around Five Points. I love this area! Bring some cash and eat at Pizza Italian, one of my favorite local restaurants. Then head down to Fans & Stoves Antique Mall for some shopping. You’re bound to leave with a few hidden gems.
  5. Visit Ft. Matanzas. This place is so cool! You ride on a boat to get to the fort. There’s also a hiking trail you can go on and a beautiful area to eat a picnic lunch. Check out my recent blog entry about visiting Ft. Matanzas.
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